And more about why I hate people!
Societal messages women hear on the daily. It’s disturbing, isn’t it?
I’m reblogging this from A Day In The Life of Lunchy. It’s SO heartwarming to see good, caring people out there. It restores my faith in humanity. Thanks to God that Cocoa got to spend her final days with someone who loved and cared for her, like every living being should.
RIP, sweet Cocoa! I’m sure your spirit is shining brightly in Heaven.
It’s taken me quite some time to get to this place in life, and I mostly like the person I am. Sure, I have my moments, things get me down sometimes. Who doesn’t? Life is like that, I guess. Hard work, sweat, tears, blood. It hasn’t been all bad, of course. But when things were down….they were REALLY down.
I had an epiphany about a week ago, and then I saw this pic on Facebook. It was like a flashbulb went off in my head. OMGosh….really?
All this time I felt guilty, like I was the one that was wrong, or that something was wrong with me. I thought if I only lost weight, didn’t express an opinion, agreed with everything, they’d love me, finally. But nothing I do, or say, or think can make the people who’ve been bullying me my whole life less poisonous. They are who they are because of their own past, the events and people that shaped them. It’s NOT my fault, and I’m NOT going to take the blame any longer.
I’m done apologizing for being me. I’m done letting the judgments hurt me or make me feel unworthy. I’m done worrying about what people think. From now on, I’m gonna do what I want to do, and to heck with the rest. It’s MY life, right? I wasn’t put here to make anyone but ME happy!
Like my mom always says, “I’m ok, it’s the REST of the world that’s wrong!” Amen, momma!
You know what? I’m VERY newly in the blogging game, but haters lurk everywhere, out here in the “real” world, on social networks, on blogs, at Walmart, everywhere. I’m printing this excellent reminder and taping it up on my wall where I can see it every day. Carry on! (MUCH thanks to Karen Gunter of build a little biz, who got it from Inspiring Mums. There’s also a version with blank bubbles so you can fill in your own words!)
I also read Chris McCombs’ blog post and wow….what a timely message for me, especially after this week. “How to Get More Haters” put a new spin on the scourge of the interwebs and gave me a little perspective in my non-cyber life, too.
Have a GREAT, AWESOME, LOVELY weekend, y’all! (And how do you like my new “signature” graphic?)
I can’t believe this has gone on this long. Come to a solution already, Nasher!
On the one hand, I get what the Nasher is upset about….yeah, it was pretty crappy of the designers to double the height of Museum Tower without advising the Nasher. Originally, the building was designed to be 21 stories tall, with glass that would have reflected on downtown Dallas but not the extent that the glass the developers ultimately went with does. What’s done is done, though, so the Nasher needs to move on and compromise on a solution with Museum Tower. They’ve played the put-upon victim long enough.
On the other hand, the Nasher’s state of the art “oculi” system that shades the interior of the museum from the glare of the Texas sun was engineered to very exacting specifications…..albeit BEFORE the Museum Tower was built, and which didn’t take in to consideration the glare from a 42-story skyscraper next door. The system is now obsolete, given Museum Tower’s glare in to the Museum’s galleries and the sculpture garden on its grounds.
Still, Museum Tower has offered to pay for the Nasher to retrofit the oculi system in order to mitigate the glare. TWICE. The Nasher says it’s not a viable option. Why? Why can’t they at least consult their engineers and the manufacturer of the system to find out what that project would entail and take that information back to Museum Tower? This constant back and forth, when at least part of a solution has been offered puts the Nasher in a bad light (pun intended!) Not only has Museum Tower offered to pay for the retrofit, they’ve even paid for the engineers to study the problem and come up with how the oculi system can be fixed!
I have yet to visit the Nasher, though I’ve been wanting to go for some time. Until this issue is resolved…….it looks like I’ll have to make my visit at night.
You know how the USPS is constantly complaining about being broke? I’m beginning to wonder what kind of colossal mismanagement is causing this budget shortfall every year, especially in light of what happened to me today!
I went to the Post Office at lunch to mail two envelopes and buy stamps. Not wanting to wait in the long line, I stepped up to the Automated Postal Center machine to weigh my mail and buy postage. I put the first envelope on the scale and the machine told me the postage would be $.66…..great! But WAIT….the minimum purchase is $1.00….and the machine would not give me an option to tell it that I was not only going to weigh more mail….but also buy stamps, thereby meeting the minimum purchase requirement! My ONLY option was to buy a $.46 stamp in addition to the $.66 stamp I needed for my mail…..then proceed to buy another $.66 stamp for my other envelope AND $9.20 worth of Forever stamps. Hmmmmm, and in case you didn’t catch it…..in what universe does $.66 + $.46 = $1.00? Apparently it does in the USPS-verse.
So……not only can the USPS not balance a budget….but they can’t do basic MATH, either. Sigh!